Family Law

Divorce and separation don’t mean you automatically split assets 50/50.

Here’s why: under Australia’s Family Law Act, property division is based on what’s fair, not just equal. The court doesn’t grab a calculator and divide everything in half. Instead, it considers:

• Contributions - financial (like income or property), non-financial (like raising kids, unpaid labour, or sacrifices).

• Future needs - age, health, earning capacity, and who’s now caring for the children.

That means a stay-at-home parent of 10 years may not walk away with “just half.” And someone who entered the relationship with a house doesn’t automatically keep all of it. Some settlements are 60/40. Others 70/30. Very few are exactly 50/50.

👉 So if someone tells you, “You’ll just get half,” take it with a grain of salt. Family law is more complex - and it’s worth getting proper advice.

💡 Tip: Family law isn’t about splitting the pie evenly — it’s about who baked it, who ate it, and who’s still doing the dishes.

🎥 For more tips, watch our short video.

Not signing a marriage certificate doesn’t mean you’re safe from legal obligations.

In Australia, if you’ve lived together for two years or you share a child, you’re probably in a de facto relationship. Legally, that means you may as well be married when it comes to property, superannuation, and debts.

Many people only find out the hard way - usually after a breakup, when their ex makes a claim over:

• The house they paid for

• Their super

• Or even their business

And the court? It won’t care what you called the relationship. It will care how you lived it:

• Shared bank accounts

• Joint bills

• Who paid what

👉 So no, calling them your “roommate” won’t protect you. If you’re building a life together, the law assumes you’re doing it as a couple - and treats you like one.

💡 Tip: If it walks like a marriage and spends like a marriage - it’s probably a legal relationship, too.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Being a biological parent doesn’t automatically mean equal time with the child.

In family court, the top priority is always the child’s best interests - and that includes their safety.

• If there’s evidence of domestic violence (physical, emotional, financial, or coercive), the court takes it seriously.

• Outcomes could include no time, supervised time, or heavily restricted contact.

• Staying silent about abuse doesn’t “keep the peace” - it puts the child at risk.

• Courts can’t act on what they don’t know, so evidence of violence must be raised.

👉 If violence was part of the relationship, it belongs in the parenting conversation - not left in the past.

💡 Tip: Parenthood comes with responsibility, not unconditional rights. When there’s abuse, the law puts the child’s safety first.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Domestic violence can leave more than emotional scars - it can impact how property is divided.

Under new provisions in Australian Family Law, if one partner’s abusive behaviour made the other’s contributions significantly harder - for example:

• Sabotaging work

• Controlling money

• Creating constant fear

…the court may adjust the property split in favour of the partner who carried that extra burden.

This isn’t about punishment. It’s about fairness. If abuse made your life harder but you still contributed, the court can recognise that imbalance.

But don’t expect it to happen automatically. You need evidence:

• Medical records

• Messages

• Timelines

The court won’t guess - you have to show it.

💡 Tip: Abuse that was invisible during the relationship might become very visible in court - if you’re ready to speak up.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

No, you don’t lose your rights just because you packed a bag and walked out.

Leaving the home doesn’t mean giving up your claim on the property, your share in the assets, or your role as a parent. In fact, in many cases, leaving is the smart thing to do - especially if there’s conflict or risk.

Where people trip up is leaving without documenting what they’ve left behind:

• No photos

• No inventory

• No legal advice

That’s when things get messy. An ex might change the locks, sell items, or pretend you abandoned everything.

👉 Leaving isn’t surrendering. But leaving without a plan? That’s handing them the upper hand on a silver platter.

💡 Tip: If you’re going to leave the house, take your toothbrush - and a lawyer.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Agreeing to “keep it amicable” and skip the lawyers might sound mature - until it doesn’t. Informal arrangements can work fine… until:

• One parent gets a new partner

• Someone moves interstate

• Or a parent suddenly refuses to return the child

And then? There’s no court order. Which means police can’t enforce anything. You’re left relying on “trust” - even if the agreement was just a casual text message.

Being civil is great. But relying on vibes instead of legal structure is like building a bridge with duct tape. If things are going well, that’s the best time to turn your agreement into a consent order. That way, if trouble comes knocking, you’re not scrambling - you’re protected.

💡 Tip: If it’s working now, lock it in before it stops working. “Trust” is not a legal strategy.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

At first, it might sound like a fair trade. But when you actually do the math, the picture changes:

• A used car loses value every day.

• Superannuation generally grows over time.

Fast forward a few years: that car could be worth less than your phone, while his super is compounding into six figures. Suddenly, “amicable” looks very expensive.

This is where many people go wrong in informal settlements - swapping short-term convenience for long-term security. Family law takes all assets seriously, including future retirement income.

👉 If you’re going to negotiate, do it with full disclosure and legal advice - not just emotion or guilt.

💡 Tip: If you’re giving up your super for a car, make sure it’s not guilt or pressure driving the wheel.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Messages and recordings can be used in family court - but not always, and not without rules.

• The content must be relevant.

• How you got it matters. Secret recordings may be illegal, especially in Queensland or NSW.

• If you recorded a conversation you weren’t part of - that’s usually not admissible.

• If it was abusive and you were the target - it may be allowed.

• Judges don’t want “drama dumps.” They want context, not 2AM rage texts.

👉 Don’t flood the court with your entire phone history. Let your lawyer decide what helps, and what just makes noise.

💡 Tip: Screenshots don’t win cases. Strategy does.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Contributions in family law aren’t just about who earned the most money. They can include:

• Financial contributions - income, savings, or assets brought in.

• Homemaking contributions - cooking, cleaning, running the household.

• Parenting contributions - raising children, daily care, emotional support.

• Sacrifices - like giving up a career for the family.

The court looks at the whole picture: who brought what in, who helped build the asset pool, and how. Don’t assume the higher earner automatically gets more. Sometimes the person providing steady support behind the scenes made all the difference.

👉 The real question isn’t “who paid the most?” It’s “who made what possible?”

💡 Tip: If they couldn’t have done it without you - that counts.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Parenting orders aren’t frozen documents. Life changes - and what made sense years ago might not work today. Kids grow, jobs change, and families move.

The law recognises this. Parenting orders can be reviewed or varied - but not casually. The court will only consider changes if:

• Circumstances have materially changed, and

• The current orders no longer serve the child’s best interests.

It’s not enough to say, “I feel like it’s unfair now.” You’ll need real evidence of significant changes, such as:

• New jobs

• Schooling needs

• Health issues

Parenting arrangements are living documents - and should be treated like it.

💡 Tip: Your kids are growing. Your orders should too.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

A parent can’t just unilaterally relocate a child if it significantly affects the other parent’s time or relationship. This is called a relocation case, and courts take them seriously.

The court will consider questions like:

• Is this move in the child’s best interests?

• Will the other parent still have meaningful involvement?

If the answer is no, the court may block the relocation. And if a parent moves without consent or a court order, they could face serious legal consequences.

👉 Relocation isn’t as simple as “pack up and go.” More importantly, the child has the right to have both parents in their life.

💡 Tip: Moving for a “fresh start” might sound appealing - but not if it bulldozes the child’s connection to the other parent.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Having a parenting order is one thing - but if your ex treats it like a suggestion, not a requirement, problems quickly follow.

Breaching a parenting order isn’t just frustrating - it’s a legal offence.

Here’s what can happen:

• You can try mediation first.

• If mediation fails, you can file a contravention application with the court.

• If the breach is proven, consequences may include:

  • Make-up time

  • Fines

  • In extreme cases, even jail

But there are two important points:

• You need solid evidence - screenshots, diaries, and messages can help.

• Don’t retaliate by breaking the order yourself. That just puts you both in breach.

👉 Courts want to see a pattern of disregard, not just one bad weekend.

💡 Tip: Don’t fight fire with fire. Fight it with evidence, paperwork, and a lawyer who knows the system.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

You log into your joint account… and suddenly access denied. Your partner changed the password, emptied the funds, and left you wondering what just happened.

Technically, yes - banks don’t enforce fairness, they just follow access rights.

But legally, it’s a different story:

• If you had joint access, locking you out could be seen as an attempt to defeat a future property claim.

• Courts don’t look kindly on sneaky financial moves during separation.

• If your partner drained the account for personal use, it could count against them in the property settlement.

👉 Don’t panic - but do act. Get legal advice fast, document everything, and freeze the account if needed.

💡 Tip: Changing the password doesn’t change the law. And draining the account might just drain their credibility in court.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

You’ve agreed to stay friends, split things fairly, and not involve lawyers. That sounds nice - until one of you changes your mind. Suddenly that “gentleman’s agreement” about the house, the car, or the super? Out the window.

And here’s the problem - verbal promises aren’t enforceable. Without proper documentation - a consent order or binding financial agreement - you’re standing on legal quicksand.

People assume everything will stay civil. But new partners, new pressures, or new resentment can flip the script fast - and suddenly it’s war.

👉 Protecting your agreement doesn’t mean you expect conflict. It means you’re prepared if it comes. Peace is great. Paperwork is better.

💡 Tip: “We don’t need lawyers” is the opening line of too many future lawsuits.

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You shook hands. You had a “mature adult conversation.” You even sent a few friendly texts summarising the deal.

So does a verbal agreement hold up in family law? Maybe - but good luck proving it. Courts want evidence. And unless that text says exactly who gets what, signed and dated, it’s not going far.

Here’s the risk:

• People misremember - or conveniently reinterpret what was agreed.

• The car you thought you were getting? Suddenly they say it was just a loan.

• The money they “gifted” you? Now they say it was only a favour.

Without formal documents, you’re relying on memory and goodwill - and both fade fast under pressure.

💡 Tip: If it’s not in writing, it’s not worth the fight. Get it signed or get ready for surprises.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

When people think about dividing assets, they think houses, cars, cash. But one of the biggest pots of money - superannuation - often gets ignored.

Why? Because you can’t touch it right now, so it feels less real. But in family law, super is property, and it can be split just like anything else.

In long relationships, one partner might have sacrificed a career to raise kids while the other built up a large super fund. That’s part of the asset pool - and you may be entitled to a share. You don’t have to wait until they retire.

There is a formal process for super splitting, and it can make a massive difference to your financial future.

👉 Don’t let a $300,000 nest egg slip through your fingers just because it feels invisible today.

💡 Tip: Super might be locked away now - but if you forget it, so is your future.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

You got married overseas - in China, the Philippines, India, or anywhere else. Can you get divorced in Australia? In most cases, yes.

Australia recognises overseas marriages as long as:

• The marriage was valid where it happened

• It was between two consenting adults

• It doesn’t break Australian rules (like bigamy or marrying a relative)

But here’s what matters - if you now live in Australia, you still need to divorce here. Even if the wedding was 20 years ago and you’ve been separated for years. Until you are legally divorced in Australia, you cannot remarry. And yes, people do get caught for bigamy.

To apply for divorce in Australia:

• One party must be an Australian citizen, permanent resident, or have lived here for 12 months

• You must be separated for at least 12 months

💡 Tip: Just because your marriage happened overseas doesn’t mean your divorce does. If you live in Australia, you need to divorce here - properly.

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Picture this: the handover happens in a McDonald's car park - again. Someone’s late, someone’s yelling, and the child is stuck in the middle.

Here’s the mistake - treating changeovers like emotional battlegrounds. It’s not about you. It’s not even about the other parent. It’s about the child feeling safe and neutral during transitions.

Courts take a dim view of parents who:

• Argue at handovers

• Use guilt trips

• Throw insults or shade

If your child starts dreading every second weekend, it’s a problem. Instead:

• Use calm, predictable locations

• Don’t bring your new partner to stir the pot

• If things are tense, ask for supervised changeovers through a contact centre

👉 That’s not weakness - it’s strategy.

💡 Tip: Changeover is not your therapy session. Save the drama for your lawyer.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Your ex says, “I’m taking the kids overseas - and no, I don’t need your permission.” Red flag alert.

• If there’s no parenting order in place, they may legally be able to - unless you act fast.

• If you have concerns they’ll actually leave and not return, you can apply for a court order to stop the travel.

• In urgent cases, the court can place the child on the Airport Watch List to prevent them from leaving Australia. Yes, that list exists - and it works.

But timing is everything. Once they’re gone, international recovery can be expensive, slow, and traumatic.

👉 Don’t wait for a “maybe.” If the threat is real, treat it like it is.

💡 Tip: The runway isn’t the place to start a legal case. Stop it before they even book the ticket.

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You trust each other. You don’t want to be “unromantic.” You’re both good people. That’s great - until things fall apart. And guess what? Good people can still have nasty breakups.

A financial agreement before marriage isn’t about distrust. It’s about clarity:

• Who keeps what?

• What happens if you split?

• What protection exists for future income, business assets, or family inheritance?

These aren’t problems - they’re planning. And no, lawyers aren’t trying to “jinx” your relationship. We’re trying to protect your future selves from future chaos.

👉 Because love may be blind, but court isn’t. It looks at paperwork, not feelings.

💡 Tip: A financial agreement before marriage isn’t saying “I don’t trust you.” It’s saying “I trust us to handle things properly.”

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Yes - full and frank financial disclosure is mandatory in family law.

Thinking of “forgetting” to disclose that secret account, crypto wallet, or cash stashed with your cousin? Think again. If you hide assets, the court can:

• Set aside the whole agreement

• Reopen the case

• Penalise you with costs

And if your ex finds out later? Your credibility will collapse faster than the ASX in a crisis.

Disclosure includes everything:

• Income

• Debt

• Super

• Trust interests

• That money you “technically” haven’t touched

👉 Trying to outsmart the system only works in movies. In real life, it just drags you deeper into legal mess.

Tip: If you don’t disclose it now, you might be disclosing it later - to a judge, under oath, with a very bad look.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

You’ve agreed to keep things “simple” - just split everything 50/50 and move on. No lawyers, no fuss.

Except... what if what you think is half isn’t legally half? What if your 50% includes a car that’s overvalued, a house full of debt, or a business you didn’t realise comes with tax surprises?

Without legal advice, you could be walking away with a share that looks fair on paper - but is actually a financial time bomb. And once you’ve signed off, reversing it isn’t easy. Courts don’t undo consent orders just because you say “oops.”

Yes, a lawyer might ask uncomfortable questions. But they also stop you from accidentally gifting away your future.

Tip: If you’re going to split the pie, make sure you know what’s really inside it.

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You bought the house before the relationship. Paid the deposit. Had your name on the title. So it’s untouchable, right? Not quite.

In family law, all assets - including pre-relationship ones - go into the asset pool for consideration. The court will look at:

• What each party brought in

• What they contributed during the relationship

• What their future needs are

That house might stay 100% yours... or it might not. It depends on factors like how long you lived together, whether the other person helped pay the mortgage, and what sacrifices were made.

Property history matters - but so does what happened after. Don’t assume your pre-relationship assets are automatically immune.

Tip: The past may be yours, but if the present was shared - so might be the outcome.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Some people think separation is a game of strategy. They quietly open new bank accounts, hide cash, or transfer assets to family - all in the name of “protecting themselves.”

But here’s the twist - once caught, these tactics usually cost more than just playing fair. Courts take a very dim view of dishonesty in family law. If you hide assets or lie on your disclosure, the judge can:

• Award more to the honest party

• Penalise you with legal costs

Even worse, it ruins your credibility. From that point on, you’re the one the court watches like a hawk.

👉 Honesty may not get you everything you want - but dishonesty often gets you exactly what you deserve.

Tip: Hiding assets during separation is like hiding knives before a dinner party - it doesn’t make you clever, just dangerous.

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You signed a Binding Financial Agreement - maybe to protect assets, avoid court, or just “get it over with.” Now you regret it. Can you undo it? Possibly - but it’s not easy.

BFAs are meant to be final. To overturn one, you need to prove serious issues such as:

• Fraud

• Duress

• Non-disclosure

• The agreement being grossly unfair

Simply saying “I didn’t like the deal” won’t cut it. Courts don’t hand out second chances just because you changed your mind.

That’s why legal advice before signing is essential - and also a mandatory process. It protects your present and helps future-proof your decisions.

Tip: A BFA is like a tattoo - don’t sign it after three glasses of wine and a breakup playlist.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

Yes - if drafted properly, a Binding Financial Agreement (BFA) can protect future income, business growth, or even an inheritance you haven’t received yet.

But here’s the catch:

• It needs to be specific, carefully worded, and legally airtight.

• “I might one day inherit something from mum” isn’t enough.

• The terms must anticipate those assets, and your partner has to agree with full legal advice on both sides.

Courts will not uphold a vague or rushed BFA, especially if it looks one-sided or unfair. And if you think you can download a template from Google and expect it to hold up in court - good luck.

👉 Protecting your future wealth starts with protecting the agreement itself.

Tip: If you don’t want your future inheritance split in a property battle, invest in a proper BFA - not a PDF.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

A good lawyer doesn’t just talk about what’s “fair” - they talk about what’s achievable.

Fairness is subjective. You might think you should keep the house because you sacrificed your career. They might think they should keep it because they paid the mortgage. Welcome to family law.

Your lawyer’s job isn’t to validate your feelings - it’s to translate them into legal strategies that actually work. That means dealing with facts, documents, and what the court can realistically order.

If your lawyer just nods sympathetically and says “that’s so unfair,” but doesn’t tell you what to do about it - that’s a red flag. You don’t want someone who only agrees with you. You want someone who fights smart.

Tip: “Justice” is nice. Legal results are better.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.

You’re not just splitting assets - you’re navigating family honour, cultural guilt, and maybe a grandma who still believes divorce brings shame.

Your lawyer may not share your background, and they can’t understand what you don’t say. That’s why a good lawyer doesn’t just wait for answers - they listen carefully, ask thoughtful questions, and create space where you feel safe to share.

In many communities, saying “no” to an elder or taking someone to court isn’t just uncomfortable - it’s unthinkable. A good lawyer should listen beyond the words and understand the unspoken layers behind your hesitation.

Cultural fluency matters. You shouldn’t have to explain why your family dynamic is complicated. Your lawyer should be curious enough to ask - and patient enough to understand.

Tip: If your lawyer can’t hear what you don’t say, they might miss what matters most.

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Everyone’s friendly when it’s just paperwork. But what happens when things go to court?

Some firms are great at drafting consent orders, then disappear the moment litigation gets real. Your file gets passed on. A barrister suddenly appears. And the “team” that sold you the strategy? Nowhere to be seen.

Here’s the thing: instructing a barrister is standard practice. What matters is whether your legal team stays involved - guiding the case, supporting you, and staying accountable.

If your case is heading for litigation, you need a legal team that actually understands courtroom work - not just one that sends pretty letters.

Ask yourself:

• Who is actually arguing my case?

• Will I be passed around, or supported from start to finish?

👉 A smooth negotiator is great. But a firm that can brief strategically, litigate confidently, and stand beside you in court? Even better.

Tip: Don’t just hire a firm for the paperwork. Hire one that’s battle-tested when the courtroom calls.

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Are things taking forever? Does every small issue suddenly require a new round of emails, a fresh invoice, and another delay? You might not have a legal problem - you might have a business model problem.

Not all lawyers work the same. Some aim to close chapters. Others keep the meter running.

Yes, complex matters take time. But if your lawyer seems more interested in “process” than progress, it’s fair to ask why. Are they helping you resolve - or recycle?

👉 You’re not paying them to sit in your life forever. You’re paying them to get you out of it.

Tip: Your lawyer should be your exit plan, not your subscription plan.

🎥 For more insights, watch our short video.